Dancing Penguins 1996

Bridget and Becca 1996

So wonderful to have nearby cousins, and we were blessed to live close enough to the Wenzel family to share dance classes. We lived in Wisconsin at the time, us in Waukesha and the Wenzel’s in Brookfield. It was a magical time – and also the cutest time when you see them in their little penguin costumes, doing their best to tap dance.

When my brothers and sisters and I grew up in the 60’s and 70’s, with few exceptions our dozens and dozens (…and dozens ) of cousins were nearby. That meant that we were always getting together. Just imagine the Baptisms, First Holy Communion, and Confirmations for that crowd. Gatherings on the weekend with extended family was just what we did. I moved away from Chicago after college and others did the same for job opportunities, taking away some of that weekly/monthly interaction.

Bridget and Becca are the fourth child of both the Wenzel and Beatty families, and as you can see very close in age. Each child is close in age to one in the other family. Though now spread across the country, all it takes is a gathering of any kind and the years and distance melt away for the cousins. And the good news is that holds true even for my children’s cousins who we were not able to live nearby.

Happy 70th(!!) Anniversary

Sep 8, 1951: Bea & Joe O’Grady, Mary & John Beatty, Anne & Jim Beatty

My wonderful parents Mary and John Beatty were married on Saturday morning Sep 8, 1951 at St. Ethelreda Parish in Chicago, Illinois. After the ceremony, the family went out to breakfast, and then the reception was held that evening in the O’Grady basement at 87th and Wood, were many parties with music and singing were held over the years. My Aunt Kay Crotty was Maid of Honor and John Porter was Best Man with a wedding party full of my aunts and uncles.

Nonagenarians Mom and Dad live today at home in Palos Heights blessed with a long, happy and healthy life – though either of them might argue with me about “healthy” these past few years. That said, they are living at home, are mobile with the help of a cane, and are mentally strong.

Mary and John have a large extended family with many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. We love them, and they are a great model for us showing grace in aging. Happy Anniversary! (I’ll post a current pic next time I am in Chicago…)